Catching Up - AGAIN

Emma's soccer season is finally over and now basketball is upon us. The games haven't started yet but she can hardly wait. We ended soccer on a very cold November 1 and our team decked out as zombies. They all looked cute and didn't seem to be bothered too much by the horribly cold day.


The adorable little flower in the Halloween pictures is my great niece Aubrey and she just might have the bluest eyes that have ever been. Simply a little cutie pie if there ever was one.


Emma is doing pretty well in first grade. She struggles with reading and I believe if she ever gets more confidence in herself that will improve. She just doesn't hear a lot of the sounds and has a difficult time with ending sounds. However, her new favorite excuse is that "I'm from China and I can't help it." Not sure where that came from. However I remind her that her Chinese ethnicity has nothing to do with her reading and spelling abilities and she needs to let that excuse go. As you may recall in a previous post, she believes that spelling words are a waste of her time. She is a little hot mess!!


Brady is doing well and about to start another job tomorrow. He should be back in school in January and I think he may have seen enough of the light to realize that he needs to take it seriously this time around. Despite the fact that he is a total goofball, I believe he might just be growing up a little. He has shared a lot with me lately and it's ironic just how much a mom might know after all.

Ashton is working part time and has plans to start school in January as well. This has been a very trying year from him and certainly for us so I am very hopeful that he is making some positive choices. I have learned a lot over the last year and the one thing I know for sure is that I can't make my kids choices for them. It's so hard to see them struggle and knowing that if they would just do things differently it would be better for everyone. I believe that you learn a lot more from your mistakes than you do from your successes, so I have just tried to back off and let them find out some things on their own. I also know that having the Serenity Prayer posted above my computer and various other places reminds me that I can't change other people. It's not my job.


Well, I have become one of "those" women. The ones that sweat so much a night that they feel like they might catch on fire at any moment. I had been having some health issues and had a hysterectomy and my gallbladder removed on November 6. I had some complications afterwards and had to spend a few nights in the hospital after I came home. Long story short, I'm really hoping that I'm on the mend. It's hard to be the patient when you are so used to being the nurse. But I have had the most amazing care provided by a 7 year old little munchin who has been the most doting caretaker you could ask for. Knock on wood, the night sweats have improved the last couple of nights, but I can totally connect with people now who suffer from those periods that I like to refer to as HELL.


So I'm trying really hard to take it easy and get my strength built up. I think the stress of this past year coupled with my health issues has taken a toll on my body. I don't really "rest" well. It's hard for me not to be doing something but I'm trying really hard to be a good patient and actually put some focus on taking care of me.

Perhaps while I'm off  I'll do better about blogging but we all know that's highly unlikely.

Tying My Shoes

A Quick Update

I know that I have been out of the blogging loop for months and my apologies to the few followers that I have. I can only say that time hasn't allowed for very much of anything and neither has life and it's circumstances. I hope to do better but I make no promises.

 

I love the next few pics of my Ashton. I can't describe what these pictures mean to me and my heart right now. This was part of a freshman trip to UT. Although we decided to hold off a semester, he still has his heart and mind set on Big Orange.

 

 

 

My baby boy is way up there isn't he? That just scares my nerves as my nephew said many years ago.

 



 And my precious oldest son has not had a hair cut in over a year now. Yes, the bandana is  a good choice for that hair of his. At first it made me crazy and now all I can say is that it's just hair and I really don't care one way or the other. If he's happy, well so am I. And yes, he is riding in the shopping cart with his sister.

Now this face screams precious doesn't it. She is the most adorable creature...most of the time. She has developed into such a talker and she has the most amazing personality and imagination. She just never ceases to amaze me. She is ok with first grade, but isn't particularly crazy about spelling words because in her words "it just wastes my time." Oh yes, her time is valuable and needs to be spent playing super hero and busy watching the IPad.

Look at those eyes looking at that tiny fish. She was very excited about her catch, but wasn't too sure she wanted to get very close to it.

Just a little catnap in the car. I love that sweet picture. She seriously slept for maybe 5 minutes and was like a new kid.

 

 

I will do my best to update more frequently. The last few months have been some of the most challenging in my life and blogging has been way down on the list. On an up side, I have learned many lessons over the last few months. I can't say I wanted to learn them but that wasn't my choice. Life hands everyone challenges and difficult situations and how we adapt to them and learn from them is our choice. I am choosing to do the best I can and take it a day at a time, a moment at a time. I am not always good at that, but I'm trying.

 



Basketball Awards

 

Emma was impressed with her trophy that she received for basketball awards. She hopped up when they called her name and marched up like she owned the place. I am so proud of her and I have to say, she is a great little ball player. She dribbles constantly in the house and Ashton has taught her some plays. She is constantly yelling "PBJ" when she is playing. I dont' exactly no what that play is and I don't think she does either but she looks adorable doing it.

 



Last Friday was transportation day at school. Last year Emma was a hot air balloon and poor Bo worked tirelessly on it. This year, he happened upon a really good deal at Toys R US and she was a horse and carriage for $2.50. Maybe not as creative but less time consuming and let's face, we are old parents and our goal is survival.

Go Big Orange!!

 

 

Well, I think the look on my boy's face says it all. He will be heading to orange country in the fall! GO VOLS!!

 



Basketball season has come and gone and it was a hit with this girl. They didn't have a particularly stellar season, but she had a blast and is already talking about playing next year. So now it's on to soccer, our first game is Saturday.

This is spring break week for us and I guess you could say we are having a "staycation". I know, it would be nice to be at the beach or Disney or anywhere at all, but it's also nice to be at home. Today Emma has 2 friends over and is enjoying the pretty day playing outside. The best thing, that doesn't cost a thing! Considering that in August we will have 2 children in college, then cheap is a really good thing!!!

We Have A New Addition

Emma loves to be the teacher and "you be the learner." We get a lot of that. I love that she has such an imagination. She is constantly in motion.

 

So I looked out one day about 2 months ago and apparently I became the owner of a new pet. We don't do cats well around here because our dogs are not huge fans. After a few days of being treed and then figuring out that she needs to take control of the situation, we have a cat. Emma named her black cat and I have to say, I've sort of fallen in love with her. She has a lot of spunk and I like that. Emma says that she has fingernails and so she is getting used to her.

                                        Our birds may not like Black cat as much as we do.

Christmas, 2013

 

 

Emma was really fun to watch this Christmas. She was so excited about everything. We spent Christmas Eve afternoon at Giggee and Pop's house and she enjoyed opening presents and entertaining. Of course she dressed in the traditional Christmas attire of Spider Man.



What is this I see? A DOLL! Could it be? This is from the movie Frozen and if you have not seen that, I highly recommend it. It was great and Emma was in a trance during the whole movie.

The grandmothers and their little hippie boy. If you could just see the hair that is under that hat!

                                             I love this picture of Aunt Pam and Emma.

                 Christmas morning and her ruby slippers that Aunt Susie gave her for Christmas.

Emma was pretty excited that Santa brought her a wheelchair and a miniature pair of crutches. She has played with them a lot. If you recall from a previous post, Emma has become very fascinated with wheelchairs this year since her friend Joseph is in her class and is in a wheelchair.

       Could it be that this is an Iron Man with muscles costume that Santa left under the tree?

Ashton got some several games and lots of other items as well as his car repaired after some damage from a wreck a few months ago. Thanks Giggee and Pop.

                               Now why would any little girl need a helmet you might ask.....

Well, here is the answer to that question! A new ride as she calls it. Thanks Giggee and Pop. This girl is full speed ahead and yes I realize that she doesn't have on the helmet!

Ashton is texting while his 6 year old sister drives. Think he might be guilty of that in his car?

            Brady certainly has the wind blown look going on in the shock of hair he is sporting.

                                            Well, what can I say? She is Captain America!!